Solace London Mother of the Bride Dresses: Elegant Styles for the Whole Day

Solace London does not run a separate mother of the bride line. The styles that suit the role best are its floor-length crepe and satin maxis with sleeves, higher necklines and one-shoulder drapes, in jewel tones and soft neutrals that sit beside the wedding palette without competing with the bride.

The brand’s own collections are organised by season, with Bridal, Modest and Icons edits alongside, so a mother of the bride has to shop across the main range. That works in your favour, because it means you get the same sculpted eveningwear the label makes for black tie guests, in UK sizes 4 to 16, and you can choose a dress for the shape of your day rather than for a category name.

The mother of the bride has a harder brief than any guest. She is in the photographs from the first to the last, she greets people for hours, she sits through dinner and speeches, and she usually dances. The dress has to look formal at noon and still feel comfortable at midnight. We would approach it with Solace London in the order below, starting with what the dress has to do.

What makes a Solace London dress right for the role

Three things matter more than the label on the hanger: coverage, comfort over a long day and a colour that works with the wedding.

Coverage is personal, but most mothers of the bride want some sleeve and a neckline that does not need adjusting. Solace London gives a lot of options here, because sleeves and one-shoulder drapes are part of its normal range. Comfort comes down to the fabric line. Styles that mix stretch knit crepe with satin, such as the Sedgewick Maxi Dress in Acai, have more give than the fully boned corseted gowns. And the colour should be chosen with the bride, not around her.

Our edit for the mother of the bride

These are the styles we would put in front of a mother of the bride, with the reason for each. Fabric and construction come from the product pages.

The Newman in Pewter is the most dramatic of the set: a one-shoulder satin maxi with an asymmetrical scarf and a long sleeve split to the elbow, with a mini slip underdress beneath. The Veya in Navy is the most classic, a one-shoulder twill gown with a pleated waist and a full-length sleeve. Navy is one of the safest mother of the bride colours there is, and the twill’s slight sheen keeps it from looking severe.

For a warmer, softer look, the Arion in Scarlet has a capped sleeve and an asymmetrical neckline in a lightly textured crepe, and the Lang in Gold is a body-conscious column with a capped sleeve and a moulded neckline in stretch knit crepe. The Marcella in Black has an off-the-shoulder neckline with a fluted sleeve that falls open at the elbow. For the civil ceremony the day before, the Gardner Mini Dress in Soft Pink is a one-shoulder mini with a draped neckline and an asymmetrical tie.

Which colours suit a mother of the bride

The first rule is the one everyone knows: no white, ivory and cream, unless the bride has asked for it. Solace London makes several cream and ivory pieces, so it is worth checking the colour name on the product page before you order.

After that, choose by season and venue. For autumn and winter weddings, the label’s jewel tones work well: acai, deep orchid, ruby and navy. They photograph richly under evening light and suit most skin tones. For spring and summer, soft pink, pewter and gold are lighter without looking washed out in daylight.

Black is a question many mothers of the bride ask us about. At a city evening wedding it is often welcome and very chic. At a country wedding in daylight it can read as sombre, and some families still prefer to avoid it. Ask the bride, and if in doubt choose navy, which has the same sharpness in a gentler shade. Our Solace London dresses by colour guide shows the full palette.

Matching the bride and the wedding party

A mother of the bride should look like part of the wedding without matching the bridesmaids. Ask for the bridesmaid colour early, then choose a shade one step deeper and two steps softer. If the bridesmaids wear dusty pink, a deep orchid works beside them. If they wear sage, navy and pewter both sit well. The mother of the groom will often coordinate with you, and our guide to mother of the groom dresses covers her side of the brief.

Satin versus crepe

Solace London names its fabrics by weight and finish, and the choice changes how a dress behaves over a long day.

Lustrous heavy weight satin, as on the Newman, has a soft shine and a fluid drape. It looks the most formal and photographs beautifully, but it shows creases after hours of sitting. Crepe is matt and denser. The bonded crepes, as on the Marcella, hold a sculpted line all day, and the stretch knit crepes, as on the Lang, move with you. If you will be seated for a long ceremony and a long dinner, a crepe will look fresher in the late photographs.

Is a Solace London maxi too formal?

For most weddings, no. A floor-length dress is the traditional choice for a mother of the bride at a formal wedding, and the label’s plain colours and clean lines keep its maxis from looking overdressed. The exception is a very relaxed daytime wedding, a beach and a garden lunch for instance, where a midi and a lighter crepe would be easier. Our guide to Solace London maxi, midi and mini dresses shows the shorter options.

Shoes, bags and finishing touches

Under a floor-length hem, choose your shoes before your fitting and wear them to it, since the hem should sit just clear of the floor in the heel you will actually wear. A slim heel suits the column styles. A block heel is kinder on grass and through a long evening on your feet. A small clutch keeps the line of the dress clean.

Coveti’s styling notes on these dresses are deliberately spare: fine metal jewellery, a soft chignon, and a tailored coat for colder months. We go further in our guide to how to style Solace London. For a church ceremony that asks for covered shoulders, the one-shoulder and off-the-shoulder styles take a light wrap well, and our guide to Solace London long sleeve dresses has the fully sleeved options.

How to size for a long day

Solace London cuts close, and a mother of the bride needs to be comfortable for twelve hours. Measure your bust, waist and low hip in centimetres and match them against the brand chart. On boned and low-stretch styles, the brand suggests your usual size, going up one if you fall between two. On stretch knit crepe, it suggests your usual size, going down one for a closer fit, but for a long day we would stay with your usual size.

Order early enough to allow a fitting with a tailor, especially for the hem. Our Solace London size guide has the full body chart and the fit notes by style, and our general Solace London wedding guest guide covers dress codes for the rest of the family.

You can browse the wider range of mother of the bride dresses across Coveti’s designers, and every Solace London style is on our Solace London brand page.

Frequently asked questions

Is Solace London good for a mother of the bride?

Yes. Solace London has no separate mother of the bride line, but its floor-length crepe and satin maxis with sleeves and one-shoulder drapes suit the role well. They are fully lined on most styles, come in UK sizes 4 to 16 and look formal without fussy detail.

Which Solace London colours suit a mother of the bride?

For autumn and winter weddings, choose Solace London jewel tones such as acai, deep orchid, ruby and navy. For spring and summer, soft pink, pewter and gold work well. Avoid the label’s ivory and cream pieces unless the bride has asked for them.

Does Solace London make mother of the bride dresses with sleeves?

Yes. Coveti stocks 34 long-sleeved Solace London styles, including the Sedgewick with a blouson bodice, and several one-shoulder styles with a floor-length sleeve, such as the Veya and Newman.

Is a Solace London maxi too formal for a mother of the bride?

For most weddings a Solace London maxi is right, since floor length is the traditional choice for a formal wedding. At a relaxed daytime wedding, a midi in a lighter crepe is easier to wear.

What shoes go with a Solace London mother of the bride dress?

A slim heel suits the Solace London column styles, and a block heel is better on grass and for a long day. Choose the shoes before your fitting and wear them to it, so the hem is set at the right length.

How should a mother of the bride size Solace London?

Match your bust, waist and low hip to the Solace London chart. On boned, low-stretch styles go up one size if you fall between two. On stretch knit crepe, stay with your usual size for comfort over a long day, and book a tailor for the hem.

More Solace London guides

Every Coveti guide to the label, plus the full Solace London edit.

• Is Solace London a Luxury Brand? Quality, Fabric and Fit Assessed
• Solace London Size Guide: UK, US and EU Sizes with Body Measurements
• Where to Buy Solace London in the US, UK and Australia
• Solace London Gowns: The Evening Styles Worth Knowing
• Solace London Wedding Guest Dresses for Every Dress Code
• Solace London Bridal: Wedding Dresses, Reception Looks and Civil Ceremony Styles
• Solace London Modest Dresses: Long Sleeves, High Necks and Full Lengths
• Solace London Dresses by Colour: Black, Red, White, Pink, Green and Blue
• Solace London Strapless, One Shoulder and Off the Shoulder Dresses
• Solace London Signature Styles: Kinsley, Lang, Kira, Olivia and the Icons Explained
• Which Celebrities Wear Solace London? Every Verified Look
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• Solace London in Dubai, Riyadh and the Gulf: Where to Shop and What to Wear
• Solace London Long Sleeve Dresses: Columns, Blouson Sleeves and Covered Gowns
• Solace London for Winter Weddings and Black Tie Galas
• Solace London Christmas Party Dresses: Minis, Midis and Party Maxis
• Solace London Maxi, Midi and Mini Dresses: Lengths Explained
• Solace London Rental Versus Buying: When Each Makes Sense
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• Solace London Real Versus Fake: How to Check Your Dress and the Site You Buy From
• How to Style Solace London: Shoes, Bags, Jewellery and Cover Ups